The simplest and wisest piece of advice given to me was to
travel. Not just from Windsor to Toronto, but to see the world as far as it
stretched. Eleven days ago, I did just that, and journeyed not only to Quito,
the capital of Ecuador, but deep within the Amazon rain forest. Upon my return,
I could vouch that traveling merits its own stage of life.
In my very first entry, I stated that this blog was destined
with a glorious purpose: to reveal the moments of existence that have changed
me and made up who I am, as well as dictating the essence of other people. I find
that garnering a new perspective on life befits that role, and it is remarkably
easy to accomplish. We begin in an airport, which is already a strange place;
where else are strict and brooding law enforcers placed only 10 feet away from genial
salesmen? Then you board a plane, and discover how men have conquered the skies
as well as the earth and the seas. Flying above the clouds, seemingly so close
to the stars, makes you feel like Rulers of the Universe, until you realize you
can’t even stop the kid in the front row from drowning the plane with their noisy
tears.
You arrive at your destination, and find that the people are
just as exotic as your novel surroundings. The people of Quito not only have a
different skin color, but different beliefs and ways of life. My group met with
one very singular Quichua woman who was still deeply devoted to the old ways of
her people, before the Spanish invaded the region and enforced their own
religion. Through her, we learned a version of history that is scarcely told,
and participated in many of the traditions and ceremonies of the Quichua. Outside
the sacred keep, the locals were celebrating the canonization
of Pope John Paul
II.
The following day, you arrive in the Amazon rain forest, and
are struck dumb by the vastness of the lush green of the trees. In contrast to
this richness of nature, you meet the children and parents of impoverished
communities. One such place was named Bella Vista Baja, in which our group
helped build an additional wing to the overpopulated school, because the
government ended funding for surrounding schools and packed those students
here. You would expect the language barrier to hinder our work, yet the essence of a minga (a community coming together) is understood by all. The locals were helpful and instructive, but it was the children that taught us the most.
Small, dirty, barefoot and simple, they derived no end of
joy from our presence. They welcomed complete strangers of white skin with
short, open arms and trusted us with the few material possessions they had. Whenever
there was spare time, we would find a group of these pure-hearted children and
play a game of soccer on the muddy fields, or else hoist them onto our
shoulders and run around with the sound of their laughter ringing in our ears.
They would blow bubbles from some of the foamy soap we brought along, or wear
our cool shades and rock them better than we ever could, or draw pictures of
their families with the paper and pencils they themselves provided. They spoke Spanish,
we did not, but that hardly made a difference when two good friends from
different parts of the world understood what being wanted and accepted meant.
On my last day among the locals, I met a young girl named Clara, who was perfection incarnate. At only 5 years old, she smiled the widest and most genuine smile you could receive (some of her teeth were missing), so that you couldn't help but feel goose bumps. I picked her up and carried her and hoisted her above me, so that she too could have a new point-of-view on the world from on high. We sang a tune without words that sounded strangely like the music from Star Wars: The Empire Strikes Back. She helped me carry our building materials back to the boat that would take us back to the mainland. I had known her for less than half an hour, and already she had been a more authentic friend than some I have known for years. When finally it was time to say Adieu, I looked her in the eyes and saw an untarnished soul, a hope for humanity imprisoned by the shackles of her cruel fate. She would stay in Bella Vista, living in poverty and forced to drink dirty water and consume meager meals, waiting on a friend that she would never see again; I would return to my own life, where luxuries I had taken for granted are abundant and a lack of basic needs is unheard of. Yet that’s why I admire the people of that community, for they are strong through the bonds between family and friends, without a care for material needs; if offered the world, they would give it all away to the ones who need it more.
On the plane ride home, you no longer feel like some all-powerful champion, but puny and pathetic in the shadow of the Ecuadoreans. You couldn't even substantially improve the life of a single child, let alone control the skies. Then it hits you that you did make a difference, even if it was just for a little while and nothing more than making a new friend in an hour that you’ll remember for years to come. Small changes have a big impact. Do a good deed, and it will be paid forward.
Wow. This blog is amazing Jon! I barely have any words as I am beyond jealous of you. These type of trips I'd imagine to be life changing. They are so important to experience at least once. I would love to hear every single detail about your trip. The thing that catches my emotions the most are the children, as you've mentioned. They literally have nothing but give so much. Thank you for sharing:) can't wait to hear more!
ReplyDeleteJonathan, it sounds like you had a life changing trip. It has always amazed me that these children that have close to nothing can appreciate the simplest things. I believe that these types of kids can teach us how to appreciate the little things in life like a smile or as you mentioned, a friend. It's unbelievable that these kids are so happy with next to nothing, yet we have more than we need and we're the ones who are complaining. Thank you for sharing your experiences!
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